Michael John O'Connor

  • Born: July 26, 1959
  • Died: September 20, 2015
  • Location: Indianapolis, Indiana

Flanner and Buchanan Funeral Center Zionsville

105 W Pine St
Zionsville, IN 46077

Tel. (317) 873-3366

Tribute & Message From The Family

Loving Husband and Father

Michael John O'Connor, 56 Years Old, Passed away September 20th, 2015.
Born in Chicago, Illinois, July 26th 1959, loving husband and best friend to Imelda and proud and devoted father to Maryann, Margaret and Meaghan,dear brother to Mary (Patrick) Drout, Elizabeth (Christopher) Thomas and John (Eleni), preceded in death by his parents Anne and Michael John O'Connor, Uncle to Erin, Sean, Brian, Maeve, Kerry, Alison and Ted.
High School educated – St Mary's, Galway, Ireland. M.S and B.S in Accounting from University of Illinois at Chicago; CPA and CMA, former employee in the Education division of Herff Jones and newly an assistant professor of accounting and finance, The Byrum School of Business, Marian University, Indianapolis, Indiana.
Lifelong fan of the Chicago Bears, Cubs, Blackhawks, British Football and Irish sports, he will be dearly missed by all who knew him. Friends and Family will gather for visitation at 9:00 AM on Thursday until Mass of Christian Burial at 11PM at St. Alphonsus Ligouri 1870 W Oak St, Zionsville. Internment is at Our Lady of Peace Cemetery. In lieu of flowers please make donations to Joy's House (www.joyshouse.org) and/or the Friends of Londiani (www.friendsoflondiani.com). Mike served as a Board Member of Joy's House, which was a source great comfort and joy to him. Arrangements entrusted to Flanner and Buchanan- Zionsville.


Condolence & Memory Journal

Dear Imelda, Maryann, Margaret and Megan. We are so sorry to hear about Mike's passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs and love coming to you from your old friends from St. Edward. Love, Bob, Julie, Emma and Evelyn

Posted by Julie Andersen - Chicago, IL - friend   October 06, 2015

Dear Imelda and girls,Maryann,Margaret and Megan.
Thinking of you all at this difficult time, cherish all your memories you all shared together.
Love and kisses to you all.

David &Michelle xx leicester UK

Posted by David&michelle - Leicester - Cousin   October 01, 2015

Dear Imelda, maryann,margaret and meghan,
we are so sorry for your loss, we cannot imagine how you all are feeling at this sad time, but you are all in our thoughts and prays, hold on to the lovely memory's you have, god bless to you all.xxx

Posted by carmel,mark, mary & family - Leicester England - carmel cousin mary auntie   October 01, 2015

Dear Imelda,

We give you our sympathy. I worked with Mike from his starting at Herff Jones, Nystrom and moved along with him to Indianapolis. It was really a pleasure working with him and we shared many a laugh. He was a special person who was liked by all.

My wife and I met you for the first time at the home of Ginny Rudis. My wife is from England.

Our condolences to you and your family.

Rich and Jean Barcichowski

Posted by Richard and Jean Barcichowski - Huntley, IL   September 26, 2015


Mike was a man of honor, strength and integrity. He will be missed.

Posted by Ted Olszyna - Chicago, IL   September 25, 2015

Dear Imelda,

It was so good to meet you this summer, but I'm really sad to hear about your loss. It is clear from all the messages about Michael that he was a dear, good man, well-loved by so many. Today will be a very tough day for you and your family, but it will be a time for everyone to show their love and respect for him, and it will be an important memory for you and the children.

It is eleven years since Jeremy's dad died, at a young age as your Dad did, and not a day has gone by without us thinking about him, sharing great memories, talking to Ciara and Euan about him, playing his favourite music, laughing about his jokes and funny times together.
You will never lose the riches of your time together.

Right now you may be thinking, as I did, that you can't go on. I totally understand that feeling, and it will continue for a while. But don't ever despair: gradually you will find a strength to bring you through the dark times. The best advice I was given: Keep busy!!!

We'll all think of you today, honouring your lovely man.

Warm wishes,


Posted by Diana Millington - Cornwall, UK - ( Jeremy's Mum )   September 24, 2015

Dear Maryann, Margaret and Meghan
I sadly never got to meet your Dad, but I have heard so many wonderful stories about him.
I am writing to you to say that words are the only thing I can send to you.
I know how proud your parents are of you girls.
You will keep each other calm as you battle this terrible storm that you are in right now.
You will look after your Mum while she looks after you.
You are a very close family and you will stay strong for each other and
I look so forward to meeting you in person whether it is on my soil or on yours.
God Bless you

Posted by Lorraine, Jeremy,Ciara and Euan - London / France - Cousin   September 24, 2015

Dear Imelda,

I was fortunate to visit you at your home around this time fifteen years ago. Mike and I were class mates and friends at St Mary's for 5 years and his outlook, his determination and his true honesty have had a definite and lasting influence on my own life. I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing and the thoughts and prayers of myself and my family will be with you at the very sad time.

Posted by Joe Egan - Galway Ireland - Friend   September 24, 2015

Imelda and family, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Michael was a very special person having touched many lives at HJ. He will be remembered always as a great guy with an infectious personality and a good friend.
Bob Potts

Posted by Bob Potts - Zionsville, IN   September 24, 2015

To all the O'Connors, it was a pleasure to come to know Mike through our work at Herff Jones. He was always an easy guy to locate, because of his commanding baritone voice. He would have been a great stage actor because he wouldn't need a microphone to reach to back seats. He loved his Irish heritage, his English family, anything to do with Chicago and most of all his family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you this week.
Jeff O'Brien

Posted by Jeffrey Obrien - Indianapolis, IN - Work friend   September 24, 2015

Dear Maryann, Margaret, and Meghan, Your dad was one of the best! You may not know it now, but he has left you a legacy far greater than most young girls will ever know. He tough you what a loving husband should be, and how wonderful a dad can be to his family. Much love and prayers to you all and your sweet Mom. Ann Ferguson, sister to Julie, Indianapolis, IN

Posted by Ann Ferguson - Indianapolis, IN - Sister to Julie Des Jean   September 23, 2015

To Imelda & daughters. We are all so very sorry to hear of the passing of your husband & dad. May he rest in peace. Sending you all our loves and prayers.
martha & keith hennessy, ireland.

Posted by martha hennessu - cousin   September 23, 2015

My dearest Imelda and your lovely daughters i cannot find the words to say how awful sorry i was to hear Mike had died. My heart is broken for you and the girls. Have a letter to post to you tomorrow. Remembering you all in my prayers. All my love to you and your girls xxxxx Teresa and John

Posted by teresa and john - ireland - aunt   September 23, 2015

Imelda, Maryann, Margaret and Meghan - sending our love to you at this sad time. Mike was a truly special person in our house, when he heard his namesake in the UK had taken to following the ' Packers ' he sent over every piece of merchandise he could find. We will always think of him and send a big hug to you all. Love from Darren, Christine, Hannah, Michael & Rob x

Posted by Christine Johnson - Leicester (UK) - Cousin   September 23, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with our niece Imelda and her girls Maryann, Margaret and Meghan at this sad time. Mike was a wonderful husband and father and will be sadly missed. Sending love to you all from Uncle Michael & Auntie Ann

Posted by Michael & Ann Quinn - Leicester (UK)   September 23, 2015

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Sending prayers to Mike's family.

Posted by Sherrie Young - IN - Former Co-worker   September 23, 2015

Dearest Imelda, Maryann, Margaret and Meghan, we are so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband and dad. You are in our thoughts and prayers. All or Love to you all. Aunty Kathleen and Joe xx

Posted by Kathleen Reilly - Aunt   September 23, 2015

To Mike's Family
I got to know Mike in high school at St Mary's College Galway .Both he and Dessie O Sullivan were the two "tough guys" from Chicago who brought a whole new perspective to our school and our lives. I was Mike's friend for quite a while before I discovered thar his Dad had grown up with my Dad in Galway,prior to emigrating to the U.S. Small world huh!!! Mike and I lost touch for a few years after school but eventually hooked up again and it was so easy to pick up where we left off. He was that kind of friend.
I have good memories of Mike and his great sense of humour.

Posted by Tony Lee - Galway - Friend   September 23, 2015

Dear Mike's Family - I am very sorry to hear about the sudden passing of Mike. I worked with Mike at Herff Jones and he was always helpful, pleasant and an all around nice guy. I remember his distinguished voice so well. I could always tell when he was in the building by the sound of his voice. I pray for God's comfort and healing during this very difficult time.

Posted by Karla Orr - Westfield, IN - Former Co-worker   September 23, 2015

To Imelda, Maryann, Meaghan & Margaret - I worked with Mike for many years at Herff Jones. His good nature, business accomplishments and friendship was valued by me and so many others. One of my favorite memories was the O'Connor family's annual visit with the Herff Jones Santa Claus. The girls were happy to see St. Nick and always dressed so beautifully. How proud a father and husband was Mike of his family. A good man who will be missed, however many memories to treasure. "Love...bears all things, believes all things and endures all things. Love never ends." 1 Corinthians 13:7-8.

Posted by Michael Williams - cARMEL, IN - Friend and colleAGUE   September 23, 2015

The most happy and good person I have met in the US. A hug to Imelda and the girls. Stay strong.

Posted by Maria Vittoria Gronchi - Milan (ITALY), IL - Friend   September 23, 2015

Dear Imelda, Margaret, Maryann and Meaghan: We are so sorry for your loss. Find your strength in each other, in the wonderful memories of a great dad and husband, and in the love and comfort of your friends and family. You are all in our hearts and prayers. With much love, Tom, Lori, Elizabeth, Melody and Skyler

Posted by the Wickstroms - Carmel, IN - friends   September 23, 2015

As a member of the Board at Joy's House, Michael was a great man to work with and added some humor to our meetings.

We also are extremely sorry for the loss of your husband Imelda and father to your girls.

Michael - you will be greatly missed.

Corrine Walter

Posted by A friend   September 23, 2015

To Mike's family: Although we've never met, I wanted you all to know how in a short time Mike had become a friend to me while working together at Herff Jones. He helped me out greatly and for that I am forever grateful. May Jesus, Mary and Joseph be with him always.

Posted by Vincent P. Meyers - Bowling Green, IN - Friend/Co-Worker   September 23, 2015

Dearest Imelda we are all so deeply saddened to hear this sad news. You and the girls are in our thoughts and prayers. With love, Uncle Dick, Aunty Rita, your cousins Bernie, Angela and Marie and Aunty Anne.

Posted by Bernie Mackow - Leicestershire - Cousin   September 22, 2015

Dearest Imelda, MaryAnn, Margaret and Meaghan. So heartbroken to hear the very sad news of the passing of a wonderful husband and Dad. May God give you strength and comfort in this terrible time. Love jimmy, Mary Teresa, Louise Melissa and Brian Noone (Galway) Ireland.

Posted by Mary Teresa Noone - Galway. - Cousin   September 22, 2015

Mike was an honest, kind, and smart man. He always took time to help me when I had questions. He showed respect and integrity at every turn and will be missed. My heart is with the family during this difficult time.

Posted by Sara Alvey - Indianapolis, IN - friend/former colleague   September 22, 2015

My family and I were sad to learn of Mike's sudden passing on Sunday. Having worked closely with him for about 13 years, we developed a strong bond as colleagues and more importantly as friends. Mike was truly a talented, honest and kind man who always had a kind word for his friends and co-workers. I'm thankful for the time he shared with me and will miss him greatly. To Imelda and his daughters, I'm sorry distance will keep me from attending the upcoming services. You all will remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by Don Rescigno - Chicago, IL - Friend & former co-worker   September 22, 2015

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Mike was a great person and will be truly missed.
I worked with him a short time between the Replogle/Herff Jones buy out. But he was always polite and respectful. God Bless the family.

Posted by Anna Szczek - Glen Ellyn, IL - Co-worker   September 22, 2015

On behalf of all Mike's classmates in St Marys College,Galway Ireland and his many old friends here-we want to let you know our hearts are with you at this time and we recall the many funny times we had with Mike.He loved the fun and brightened up many of our College days.A committed basketball player.Heaven will be full of good 'craic'! May Mike Rest in Peace. Our Prayers and Thoughts with all the Family.

Posted by Tim Hynes - Galway,Ireland   September 22, 2015

I worked with Mike for many year. Over that time I developed a tremendous respect for his integrity, intelligence, and humor. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Posted by Ronald Olech - Chicago, IL - Friend/Colleague   September 22, 2015

Imelda, Maryann, Meaghan and Margaret - thinking of you all at this sad time on the loss of your husband, father and friend. Take care and I will be asking Fr. Con Ryan to offer mass for Micheal this week in Londiani - lots of love Maria & Martin

Posted by Martin Ballantyne - Londiani   September 22, 2015